Child custody hearings can be very overwhelming. They’re never just about presenting your case—at their core, they’re about protecting your child’s future and your relationship with them. At Holstrom, Block & Parke, we know exactly how high the stakes are. 

With over 300 years of combined experience in family law, our team, which includes Certified Family Law Specialists, is here to guide you step by step through the entire process. This guide will help you prepare effectively for your custody hearing and increase your chances of a positive outcome.

Understand California Custody Laws

As you begin preparing for your custody hearing, it’s absolutely critical to clearly understand how custody decisions are made in California. Here’s everything you need to know:

Types of Custody

California recognizes two primary types of custody:

• Legal Custody: This determines who makes major decisions about the child’s health, education, and welfare.
• Physical Custody: This defines where the child lives and which parent handles daily care.

Custody can be joint (shared by both parents) or sole (awarded to one parent). The court’s goal is always to do what’s best for the child.

Best Interests of the Child

The court evaluates several factors to decide what’s in the child’s best interests, such as:

• The child’s age and health.
• Emotional ties between the child and each parent.
• Each parent’s ability to provide a stable home.
• Any history of domestic violence or substance abuse.

California-Specific Laws

California law typically encourages joint custody, believing that children typically benefit from maintaining strong relationships with both parents. However, the court will prioritize safety and stability if there are concerns about one parent’s behavior.

Get More Information

For more detailed information, visit the California Courts’ website or explore the resources available on the Holstrom, Block & Parke website.

Gather Essential Documentation

Having all the right documentation that’s properly completed and coherently organized, can make or break your case. Here’s how to ensure you’re well-prepared:

Expand the List

Bring documents that demonstrate your involvement in your child’s life, such as:

• Birth certificates and medical records.
• School records, including report cards and teacher communications.
• Financial statements to show your ability to support the child.
• Communication logs (emails or texts) with the other parent.
• Photos or videos of significant moments with your child.

Organize and Present

Create a clear system for organizing your documents that’s easy to follow and digest. Use labeled folders or a binder to make it easy to reference specific items during the hearing.

Explain the “Why”

Each document should support your larger case. For example:

• Medical records may demonstrate your attentiveness to the child’s health.
• Communication logs can show your willingness to co-parent.
• Teacher communications can show your level of involvement in the child’s education.

Develop a Parenting Plan

A comprehensive parenting plan shows the court that you’re more focused on your child’s well-being than simply winning over your ex-spouse. Here’s what to include:

Detailed Explanation

A parenting plan outlines how you and the other parent will share responsibilities. It’s a roadmap for cooperation that tries to actively minimize potential conflicts.

Key Elements

Your parenting plan should cover:

• Time-sharing schedules: Include regular days, holidays, and vacations.
• Decision-making authority: Specify who handles decisions about education, healthcare, and extracurricular activities.
• Communication protocols: Detail how you’ll stay in touch with the other parent.
• Relocation provisions: Address what happens if one parent needs to move.

Prepare Your Testimony

Your testimony is your major chance to show the court why your custody arrangement benefits your child. Here’s how to prepare:

Practice and Refine

Work with your attorney to practice answering likely questions. Consider asking a trusted friend to listen and provide feedback.

Focus on Positives

Emphasize your ability to provide a loving, stable home. Highlight your involvement in your child’s education, healthcare, and daily routines.

Stay Calm

Remain composed and respectful, even if emotions run high. Avoid interrupting or reacting to statements from the other party.

Address Concerns

Be prepared to explain any potential weaknesses in your case, such as a demanding work schedule. Show the court how you’ve addressed these issues.

Consider Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR)

Before going to court, explore options like mediation or collaborative law to resolve custody issues amicably.

Available ADR Options

You have alternative options, like mediation and collaborative law. Mediation involves working with a neutral third party to reach an agreement. Collaborative law brings both parents and their attorneys together to negotiate.

Benefits of ADR

ADR can save time and money, reduce stress, and give you more control over the outcome.

Holstrom, Block & Parke Services

Our firm offers mediation services to help parents find solutions without the need for a contentious court battle.

Work with an Experienced Attorney

Legal representation is essential for getting through custody cases effectively. Experienced attorneys provide careful guidance every step of the way, and can help you improve your outcome in a range of ways.

Essential Guidance

An attorney provides clarity, support, and strategy during what is often an emotional process.

How a Lawyer Can Help

Your attorney can:

• Negotiate with the other party.
• Protect your parental rights.
• Organize evidence and build a compelling case.
• Represent you confidently in court.

Holstrom, Block & Parke’s Expertise

With decades of experience in custody cases, our team’s results speak for themselves. We’ve seen every type of case, and we bring this wealth of experience to your unique situation, helping you cover every angle thoughtfully and comprehensively.

Courtroom Etiquette

A professional demeanor often influences how the judge perceives your case. Here are some tips:

Professional Appearance

Dress in business casual attire. Your appearance should convey respect for the court.

Respectful Demeanor

Stay attentive and polite throughout the proceedings. Address the judge as "Your Honor" and speak only when prompted.

Courtroom Procedures

Understand the basics, such as:

• Stand when addressing the judge.
• Answer questions clearly and directly.
• Avoid interrupting the other party or their attorney.

Need Help with Your Child Custody Case? Contact Holstrom, Block & Parke Today!

Child custody cases are challenging, but you don’t have to face them alone. Our team is dedicated to protecting your rights and securing the best possible outcome for your family. Call us at 855-426-9111 or complete our online contact form to schedule a telephonic case assessment. Let’s work together to safeguard your child’s future.