Mediation & Collaborative Divorce
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Mediation & Collaborative Divorce in San Francisco & the Bay Area
A Better Way to Resolve Your Divorce
Divorce doesn’t have to mean conflict. Many couples find that working together — rather than against each other — leads to healthier outcomes, lower costs, and far less stress. At Holstrom, Block & Parke, APLC, our San Francisco mediation and collaborative divorce attorneys help Bay Area clients navigate separation with dignity, respect, and open communication. With over 300 years of combined family law experience, we provide skilled, compassionate guidance through mediation and collaborative divorce, helping couples reach fair agreements on their own terms — without the emotional and financial strain of courtroom litigation.
Understanding Mediation in California
Under California Evidence Code §§ 1115–1128, mediation is a structured process in which a neutral mediator helps both spouses communicate and negotiate mutually acceptable solutions.
Mediation focuses on cooperation rather than confrontation — giving you and your spouse more control over decisions such as:
- Division of property and assets
- Child custody and parenting plans
- Child support
- Spousal support (alimony)
Both spouses may choose to retain their own attorneys during mediation to ensure informed decision-making, or they may agree to share a neutral legal representative for efficiency and reduced cost. The goal is to foster productive dialogue and avoid unnecessary hostility.
Collaborative Divorce: A Team-Based Approach
While mediation involves a neutral facilitator, collaborative divorce takes cooperation a step further. Under California Family Code §§ 2010–2013, both spouses and their attorneys agree in writing to resolve all issues outside of court. Each party commits to full transparency and good faith negotiation — with the shared goal of reaching an amicable settlement. If the collaborative process succeeds, your case will only need one brief court appearance to finalize the divorce. This approach can be ideal for couples who value privacy, flexibility, and a peaceful resolution that prioritizes family harmony.
The Benefits of Mediation & Collaboration
Choosing mediation or collaboration over traditional litigation offers numerous advantages:
- Lower emotional and financial costs
- Greater privacy and control over outcomes
- Faster resolution timelines
- Reduced stress for children and families
- More cooperative post-divorce relationships
At Holstrom, Block & Parke, our attorneys help clients across San Francisco, Alameda, Marin, Contra Costa, and surrounding Bay Area counties determine whether mediation or collaborative divorce is the right path for their family.
Find Peaceful Solutions with Trusted Guidance
Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. Whether you’re considering mediation or collaborative divorce, our Bay Area family law attorneys will help you make informed decisions that protect your rights and promote long-term stability. Contact our San Francisco mediation and collaborative divorce lawyers today to schedule a confidential consultation and explore a more peaceful path forward.